Growing Up Shia in London: The Struggles and Beauty
As a Shia growing up in London, my journey has been one of both struggle and beauty, shaped by my faith, culture, and the environment around me. Living in a city that prides itself on diversity, you’d think being Shia would feel natural and accepted, but it hasn’t always been that simple.
One of the most significant challenges I’ve faced is balancing my religious identity with the culture around me. While London is multicultural, it’s still a city dominated by a more secular way of life. Interacting with friends who don’t share my beliefs has sometimes left me feeling out of place. For example, during Muharram, when we mourn the tragedy of Karbala, it’s a time when my heart is heavy with grief, yet my friends might not understand why I don’t join in on their plans or celebrations. It feels isolating at times, like I’m living in two worlds – one where my faith defines me and one where it feels foreign.
A crucial part of my journey has been my family, who have always been a guiding light. My parents have played an important role in shaping my understanding of our faith. I can vividly remember evenings spent together, listening to their stories about our religion, the importance of our beliefs, and the legacy of those who came before us. They’ve instilled in me the values of compassion, humility, and resilience. Whenever I face challenges in my faith or moments of doubt, they are my support, reminding me of the strength that comes from our faith. Their encouragement gives me the courage to embrace my identity, especially during times when it feels daunting or when I feel the weight of external expectations.
Watching my parents serve our community has left a profound impact on me. Whether it’s volunteering during Ramadan, organising events, or offering their time to support families in need, their dedication exemplifies the essence of our faith. I remember feeling a sense of pride as I joined them at the mosque, seeing the respect and love they received from others. Their selflessness inspires me to find ways to give back as well, and I strive to honour their example in my own actions. They’ve taught me that serving others isn’t an obligation; it’s a way to strengthen our community and connect with our roots.
A place that has always given me strength through these struggles is Rasool Al-Adham. It’s more than a mosque – it’s a home. Everyone there treats you like family, and the warmth of the community has been a constant source of comfort. Whether it’s during Ramadan or Muharram, the sense of unity and support is undeniable. Being around people who understand and share my experiences makes me feel seen and valued, especially in a city where I sometimes feel like an outsider.
At the same time, the After Maghrib podcast has played an important role in my life. It addresses the very real challenges that Shias face – navigating faith, identity, and the modern world. Listening to others talk about their struggles has reassured me that l’m not alone, and it’s given me practical advice on how to stay true to my beliefs while living in a society that often pushes me to compromise them. It’s a space where I can connect with people who understand my journey and help me grow in my faith.
Despite the struggles, there’s a profound beauty in growing up Shia. The story of Karbala has given me a deep sense of purpose and resilience. Imam Hussain (A.S.) and his stand for justice remind me that standing up for what’s right, no matter how difficult, is the essence of my faith. Growing up in London has tested my beliefs at times, but it’s also shown me the power of staying true to my values.
In a way, being Shia in London has taught me that I carry a piece of Karbala with me wherever I go. The challenges I face – whether it’s explaining my faith to others or balancing my cultural and religious identity mirror, in a small way, the struggle for justice and truth that defines Shia Islam. And I know that, just like Imam Hussain (A.S.), I am never alone. I have my community at Rasool Al-Adham, my family, and most importantly, my faith to guide me.
Being Shia in London may not always be easy, but it has given me a strength and pride in my identity that I wouldn’t trade for anything. The beauty of it all is knowing that I belong to a tradition that has stood the test of time and will continue to shape me as I grow.
